Alarm clock. Shower. Feed the kids. Pack the lunches. Breakfast. Oh, I forgot to send that email! Better hurry I only have an hour to train before I have to get back to work. Lunch meeting. Conference call. Clean snack? Check! I’ll eat it while I’m picking up the groceries. Honey, of course I’ll get the dry-cleaning, no problem. Mom, can Katie stay for dinner?! Meatless Monday it is! Ok family fed, dishes done. I can finally relax with a little movie and well maybe a few of those chocolate things because I feel like I haven’t eaten all day. Just a few though. Movie is over. Bag is empty. Yikes! What happened?
Sound familiar?
Now take a deep breath and exhale. Feel better? The practice of mindfulness is as simple as taking one conscious breath.
Through practicing the Eat-Clean Diet lifestyle I’m sure that you have come across the concept of ‘mindfulness.’ I first heard this term several years ago when I was working towards recovery from an eating disorder, and, although I understood the theory, the idea of locating this illusive ‘present moment’ seemed hypocritical. I mean, if I was not present, where was I?
Life in today’s society is incredibly hectic. Between work, family obligations, social obligations, living a Clean, fit lifestyle and focusing on personal goals, constant thoughts about what happened or what is about to happen in an hour, in a day, next week, become our natural state. The issue with this is that we find ourselves in a perpetual state of motion, rather than in stillness, and hence rob ourselves of the precious present moment. In doing so, we find ourselves eating but never quite feeling satisfied or training but not fully experiencing results. Not to mention, this constant motion causes an extreme amount of stress on the body keeping the sympathetic nervous system on autopilot, which leads to cortisol release, weight gain, water retention, hormonal and digestive issues.
Incorporating mindfulness changed my life and was the key to my recovery and weight loss, which you can read more about in Oxygen magazine’s special issue of Off The Couch 2012.
After years of suffering with an eating disorder, I no longer understood where my boundaries were when it came to feeling hungry or full - the lines were completely blurred. I would often find myself zoning out during meals and not fully concentrating on each and every bite or on the experience as a whole. In fact, many times I couldn’t even remember if I had even had a meal! Practicing mindfulness helped me to re-learn these basic and critical bodily impulses.
Prior to engaging in mindful living, when I was eating, I would be thinking of the next thing I had to do. I would be working on the computer, chatting on the phone or watching a movie but never really fully focusing on the sacred act of eating my meal. As a result, I would get to the end of my meals never feeling fully satisfied or satiated. In turn, there was a greater dissonance in my mind/body/spirit connection.
This would also lead to a pattern of snacking, binging and emotional eating. I was never really ‘hungry’ during these binging sessions but simply wanted to feel ‘full’. I later understood that this lack of satiety or fullness was directly connected to a lack of full presence during each moment.
For those of you who follow me on my blog Eve Post Apple, Twitter, Facebook, Pinterest or on my website, you will know that chilling out is a big part of my fit lifestyle and provides the balance for the intensity necessary to not just manage life’s obligations but to enjoy them.
This video explains some of the ways that I practice mindfulness in my life when it comes to conscious breathing, eating, and grounding myself. I encourage you to try at least one of these tips today when you first wake up, at your next meal or during a stressful moment and just notice how you feel.